This is a post for all men who have experienced PMS on their skin …
Men can hardly understand the rush of crazy hormones of a real woman who does not know whether she is eating salty or sweet, and for that very reason she suffers from both. I am writing this purely for one reason; to at least clear my conscience a little. So after one PMS I start to analyze my behavior (otherwise I don’t remember at all); hate speech, dictatorial speech, or a state of war are not worthy of that description.
My husband once asked me after my madness; will you later feel sorry for everything you said? No, I don’t remember at all.
Therefore, please all boys, men, husbands, brothers, neighbors, friends … when you see that a woman’s behavior has changed abruptly, do not try to help.
You can’t help it. Scientists in the fields of medicine, biochemistry, biology, quantum physics are dealing with this, but have not yet found a solution. Don’t bother either. All you can do is like an earthquake; sit under a beam (choose the safest place in the house) and pray to god not to hit you – earthquake.
When it passes, the storm air is much cleaner, you can express your opinion again. You can defend your views again, discuss anything and everything. But for God’s sake, not in this period of storm.
What you can do is help sooner and this way you will prevent and avoid more damage:
- Take a walk together for at least half an hour each day and change a few sentences on your own.
- Show her how much you care about her every day.
- Thank yourself for every little thing that made your life more beautiful.
- Put up with her friends, or at least pretend to put up with them, because not all of your friends are her favorites either.
- Help her in her daily life, at least as much so she has time to paint her nails.
- Remind her to drink the vitamins and minerals she lacks (magnesium, iron, folic acid, vitamin B6, calcium – these reduce the symptoms of PMS
- Never explain to her how not to drive or teach her how to drive a car.
- That’s why there are driving schools.
- If you notice her crying on a commercial for a helium fax, don’t be surprised and reassure her that she’s crazy. Such advertisements can soften women.
It may help you make the next pms easier. But even if she is not, be with her and love her when she passes. I know it’s hard to show her love in those days.
And always, but always keep in mind; in pms they don’t know what they’re doing … so forgive them all.